Tyler and I were in my room the other day when all of a sudden, out of the blue, he says "mama if you die I want to die too.   There is no living without you or daddy".  I didn't know seven-year-olds had such deep thoughts!  I wasn't sure how to respond so I told him I felt the same way about him but that I would want him to have a long and happy life even if something happened to me or his daddy.   